law of attraciton

A New Year, A New Life, A New YOU!

The whole of creation exists in you, and it is your destiny to become increasingly aware of its infinite wonders and to experience ever greater and grander portions of it. ~Goddard Neville

HAPPY 2013:  May this be your best year yet!

It’s a new year and for most of us, this is a time for reflection and making changes that will bring us closer to the things we most desire. You may want to attract the perfect job or your soulmate; or you may be wishing the partner you were with would turn into your soulmate; or maybe you are hoping this will be the year your business finally takes off.

Most people go through life wanting things to be better but not sure how to improve them.  And they believe that everything good or bad happens to them as a result of outer causes, coincidence, or chance.  Personally, I studied yoga, meditated on mountaintops, lived in India, and traveled the globe, hoping to find answers that would allow me to have the life I wanted.  Finally, I came back home to central Florida where I embarked on a long journey studying the Law of Attraction. This was the most important work of my life as it finally allowed me to master the techniques of changing my life through changing my consciousness.  Of course I had been working on myself, but I was working on myself because I thought I was broken, unworthy, needed to be “fixed.”  What I learned in the LOA work would change the course of my life forever.

I learned that I wasn’t lacking anything but the knowledge of how to be set free from my own self-limiting beliefs.  And the first thing I learned and the most fundamental concept everyone has to accept to use the LOA masterfully in their life is that to change your life, the only thing you have to change is yourself–AND you have to change yourself at the level of consciousness.  We can gain control of our happiness only when we understand and fully accept that there is nothing out in the world causing us to experience what we do, that everything comes to us from our own consciousness, and is consented to by us, believed by us, and made manifest by us.

Once we accept we are responsible for creating our reality, we can begin to explore our own consciousness, what we believe and what we identify with, so that we can begin to change our thinking, our entire thought patterns, and thus our consciousness.  By changing our consciousness, we can actually become a new version of ourselves, allowing the old self to die, so that the new self can be born.

If you would like to study with me, to be a part of a community of people–live or online–interested in becoming the best version of themselves they can imagine, join me in January for my LOA Foundations Course.  This will be the beginning of a beautiful journey for you, to awaken to who you really are and create the life that your heart desires.  It’s all available to you if you commit to learning the secrets to unleashing the power in your own consciousness.

Love and blessings,


Pamela is a life/relationship/LOA coach, teacher, speaker and is founder of the Law of Attraction Learning Center and Empowering Love.  Call Pamela at 407-733-6282 or visit her website at to register or for more information on her course that will begin on Thursday, January 24, 2013

Radical Self Trust

“As soon as you trust yourself, you will know how to live.” Goethe

“When I’m trusting and being myself… everything in my life reflects this by falling into place easily, often miraculously. ~Shakti Gawain

Today’s topic is one dear to my heart because it took me so many years to get to the point of trusting myself–and even now, some days I revert back to trusting others over myself.  I’ve written before about taking radical responsibility for our lives–how everything that shows up is revealing who we are being in the world.  These two–radical responsibility and radical self trust are intimately connected.  When we take radical responsibility for everything that shows up in our experience, we also must trust ourselves completely.  

One of my students asked the other night how we can distinguish between our higher self speaking to us during meditation and some other voice.  Another student then offered that when she used to run in marathon training, she would get into a zone–not unlike meditation–and all sorts of answers to various “problems” in her life would come to her.  And she would recognize these things as exactly what she needed.

This student’s experience is a great example of how information can come to us when we quiet our mind in some form of meditation.  Her experience also suggests that when we get information from our Higher Self in meditation or in everyday life, we will often recognize it as such.  But that is not always the case.  Sometimes what comes to us may make no logical sense to us at all, but we just have to trust that if it came during meditation and we were looking for an answer, it is coming from our Higher Self.  “Ask and thou shalt receive.”

When we receive information during meditation and when we are asking form guidance, we need to follow it–even if it seems crazy to our logical mind.  Years ago when I was closing my business and not sure of my “next step,” I asked for guidance to come to me during my morning meditation and I got a very specific answer: “Medical Sales.”  I looked upward and asked, “Say WHAT?”  I had no medical background and had in fact never considered a career in any medical field.  However, I had learned to trust what comes in meditation as indeed information from the Divine or my Higher Self (whatever one wishes to call it).

It was through listening to that information that I applied for a job with the man who is now my husband.  I worked with him for a couple of years–it was not really “the job” that my Higher Self was leading me to however–it was something much greater–my soul mate and the love of my life.

Start today to ask your Higher Self for guidance. Before you sit down to meditate or go on that five mile run, ask that you receive what you need to know regarding whatever you’re struggling with or whatever you need a little guidance on.
And then listen and trust what comes.

There is another important component of Radical Self Trust, so more next week on this important topic.

Until then, love your self and your life, every moment!

Love and blessings,


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