Consciousness as Cause

Are you trusting yourself? Radical Self-Trust Part 2

“This being human is a guest house. Every morning a new arrival. A joy, a depression, a meaness, some momentary awareness comes as an unexpected visitor. Welcome and entertain all!  Even if they’re a crowd of sorrows, who violently sweep your house empty of its furniture, still, treat each guest honorably. He may be clearing you out for some new delight. The dark thought, the shame, the malice, meet them at the door laughing, and invite them in.  Be grateful for whomever comes, because each has been sent as a guide from beyond.” ~Rumi

Last week I wrote about radical self-trust in terms of learning to trust the voice and the guidance within. Trusting yourself really is an essential part of radical responsibility.  

The other important aspect of radical self-trust is trusting that everything that shows up in our lives is there to inform us, to teach us, and to help move us toward more of who we really are. 

How different would our lives be if we would just embrace our worries, doubts, fears and frustrations as teachers there to inform us of what our next step is?  If we listen to what they are saying to us rather than trying to banish them, we can then learn from them, thank them and release them, and move into the next best version of ourselves.  This is so much easier than fighting with them and trying to exile them.  

When we radically trust ourselves, we see every experience in our lives an important part of the natural unfolding of ourselves toward our highest good.  The truth is that our most painful experiences are often the most necessary in terms of our learning and growing toward the ultimate fulfillment of who we really are.

Take the time to look to any worries, fears, or doubts and any painful experience as messengers with important information.   Sit with them in meditation, ask your higher self for guidance and allow yourself to receive what you need from whatever you’re going through.  Any psychological state that we don’t want to be in has its gift if we simply befriend it rather than pushing it away.  Staying receptive and befriending whatever we’re feeling, will allow us to hear what it has to say.  Only then can we release it and move forward with the insight we have gained.

Why not take a vow of radical self-trust right now?  Decide to have faith in all of your experiences and trust even the painful states of mind you may find yourself in.  Befriend all that comes your way as a beloved teacher.  From this place of radical self-trust, you will find that you can move through anything more quickly, easily and gracefully.  And we gain so much more from accepting rather than fighting whatever it is that shows up in our lives.

Love and blessings,


Wealth and Abundance for All

I have many clients come to my work interested in creating abundance or wealth in their lives.  It’s the staging area, next to relationships, that people I work with struggle in the most.  I’ve gone through my own struggles in this area.  One of the most important things we can do is begin to recognize what we are believing around money and wealth.  What was operating for me for a long time was the belief that I had to do something I didn’t love to make lots of money.  So certainly this was fulfilling itself in my life. I was able to make lots of money while I was doing work that was not my heart’s desire but the moment I tried to do what I loved, the money stopped flowing.

It takes shifting out of those self-limiting beliefs to change what we are creating.  And remember it’s not important to even know when or why you adopted the limiting belief. Shifting it is a choice we can consciously make any time we choose.

One common limiting belief that I hear from clients is that some people are destined to have money, while others are not.  And they give in to the notion that they themselves are not one of the lucky ones with a destiny of wealth.

In the consciousness as cause model we learn in studying the Law of Attraction principles, we have to accept radical responsibility for what shows up our my lives. Our beliefs and intentions are what are creating our reality, and they are our own choice.  Now that doesn’t take anything away from the mysteries of the universe and the fact that ultimately we co-create with the Field.  We are, still, the creators with the Field working through us its magic of creation.

A new more empowering belief is that we can choose to believe in our prosperity at any time and it is our beliefs, not our “destiny” that are determining and creating our reality.

Another common belief is that it’s selfish or greedy to desire wealth and prosperity.  But in reality, the desire for wealth is a very normal way human beings seek more life.  Just as flower seeds dropped into the earth spring into growth, sprouting up into buds and eventually blooming, for us to seek the capacity for a larger life and more fulfillment, whether monetarily, creatively or whatever, is what we are here for.  Wealth is one avenue that can allow us more creative expression of who we are.

If prosperity in any form is something you struggle with, take some time this week to consider any limiting beliefs you may have about money, wealth or abundance.  Decide to replace them with an empowering beliefs that will plant the seed of abundance in you.

Take some time also to begin to notice and be grateful for all the abundance, the unlimited supply, in the universe.  You have plenty of air to breathe, plenty of food to eat.  Begin to deeply appreciate all the wealth and abundance you already possess.

As you replace old beliefs with empowering ones and step into the consciousness of gratefulness, you will begin identifying with the feeling of abundance.  Let your consciousness become one of an abundant person.  Feel that with every part of your being.  Remember that it is not conditions in the outer world we are concerned with.  It’s the inner fulfillment.  A billionaire can have a miser mentality and feel a sense that there is never enough.  A person of little means can feel the meal in front of him is a king’s feast.  Don’t be swayed by any factual events in your life.  Let your inner world be one of abundance and see what shifts for you.

Love and blessings!


Five Secrets to Successfully Using the Law of Attraction to Manifest What you Want in Your Life

“We have to thank our partners our friends, everyone who shows up in our lives.  They are telling us what we believe about ourselves and showing us who we are being in the world.”  PRTatum

SECRET # 1:  RADICAL RESPONSIBILITY:  ACCEPT–100% RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR EXPERIENCES. The first secret is very basic to Law of Attraction practice, but one so many people overlook it or even deny.  We must accept radical responsibility–that is 100% responsibility–for what we experience, even when it appears to be the will of others or external conditions.

SECRET # 2:  UNDERSTAND THAT OUR DESIRES ARE NOT CREATIVE.  So what is?  Our consciousness.  And deep in our consciousness is our intentions, our beliefs and what we identify with.  OUR BELIEFS & IDENTITY INTENTIONS are creating our reality.  These can be conscious or unconscious.  Unfortunately people unconsciously intend all the time  and then have things show up in their lives and wonder, HOW DID I CREATE THIS?

SECRET # 3:  KNOW WHAT HAS TO CHANGE IS US.  We must change ourselves–at the level of consciousness in order to change what’s showing up in our lives.  We have to dig deep to discover our unconscious beliefs and identity intentions and then begin to replace them with conscious beliefs and intentions.  We don’t seek to change anything in the world, but instead, we change ourselves.  As the great Confucius wrote,“Great is the man who can overcome the world, but greater still is the man who can overcome himself, for he will have the world spinning on the palm of his hand.” 

SECRET # 4:  ALLOW THINGS TO HAPPEN RATHER THAN WILLING THEM TO HAPPEN.  We can run around the world trying to force this or tackle that to the ground, visualizing, chanting affirmations, etc. but usually we are met with failure.  Even our successes we achieve this way are short-lived.  Allowing is irresistible to the Universe.  When we move out of a state of suffering–trying to tackle everything we want to the ground–into a state of willingness, nonresistance, and peace, we experience a sense of joy.  Then the universe simply corresponds to who we are.

SECRET # 5:  THE LAW OF ATTRACTION IS NOT JUST A THEORY; IT REQUIRES PRACTICE.   It’s not enough to understand the basics of law of attraction theory.  We must practice it in a moment-by-moment way of deliberate creating.  (And BTW this LOA theory is supported by the New Physics, which you will learn about if you take my course.)

Most of us have spent our lives believing that the world is cause and we are its effect.  The new paradigm requires a shift in consciousness, where we transcend that belief and come to understand that evidence doesn’t show us what to believe, we believe and therefore we see the evidence.

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